Exploration Time Book List
Welcome to the Exploration Time book list! Exploration Time is a list of books that invoke little to no caveats (this book is great but...) on a wide range of topics related to mental health, identity, sexuality, and living in this world. Each link will take you directly to the author's book page or a page with more information about the book
Why did I create this list?
I often get requests for recommendations for books, and I find myself getting stuck. So many books are hard to navigate for many people. They may be rooted in dominant paradigm ideas: heteronormative, white, colonial, classist, sizeist, ableist, racist, neurotypical, monogamous, religious. They might have pathologizing, violent, provocative, prescriptive, or just misaligned-to-the-reader titles and examples. Maybe they have a listicle, do X things and solve all your problems approach to huge life experiences, or they set unattainable expectations for the book or the reader. Sifting through barriers and expectations can make reflection, self-discovery, and adaptation loaded, tiring, and overwhelming, even if the text has some really good ideas.
This is a list of books that can be referenced without a huge list of caveats. This list includes authors from diverse backgrounds: gender expansive people, people of color, people with lived experience of the subjects, and all types of authors and styles and theories are included here. The book titles and content reflect a whole person, with little or no shocking imagery, overly comical approaches to real experiences, or minimization of different ideas and experiences.
This list aims to be free of books written by people who have a known or publicized history of abuse or assault.
Are these books going to meet every need? NO!
No book can speak to every story, need, and experience. But they CAN include a range of people and acknowledge a variety of experiences so more readers feel included.
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Calm Your ADHD Brain: Your toolkit to manage spiraling thoughts by Emma Llewellyn
Laziness Does Not Exist by Devon Price
The Simple Guide to ADHD Regulation: The Secret to Finding Balance, Getting Things Done, and Enjoying Your Life by Jenna Free
Tip of the ADHD Iceberg: An adult's guide to embracing the hidden layers of your neurodivergence by Samantha Hiew
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Celebrate Your Body (And Its Changes, Too!) The Ultimate Puberty Book for Girls by Sonya Renee Taylor
Coping Skills for Teens Workbook: 60 Helpful Ways to Deal with Stress, Anxiety and Anger by Janine Halloran
LGBTQ: The Survival Guide for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, and Questioning Teens by Kelly Huegel Madrone
Trans+: Love, Sex, Romance, and Being You by Kathryn Gonzales and Karen Rayne
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Good and Mad, the revolutionary power of women’s anger by Rebecca Traister
Healing the Angry Brain: How Understanding the Way Your Brain Works Can Help You Control Anger and Aggression by Ronald Potter-Efron MSW, PhD
Rage Becomes Her by Soraya Chemaly
The Dance of Anger by Harriet Lerner, Ph.D
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Embracing Neurodiversity with The Safe House Framework: Autism Edition by Valli Jones
Looking After Your Autistic Self A Personalised Self Care Approach to Managing Your Sensory & Emotional Well Being by Niamh Garvey
Neuroqueer Heresies: Notes on the Neurodiversity Paradigm, Autistic Empowerment, and Postnormal Possibilitiesby Nick Walker
Self-Care for Autistic People: 100+ Ways to Recharge, De-Stress, and Unmask! by Megan Anna Neff
The Autism and Neurodiversity Self Advocacy Handbook Developing the Skills to Determine Your Own Future by Barb Cook and Yenn Purkis
The Autism Spectrum Guide to Sexuality and Relationships: Understand Yourself and Make Choices that are Right for You by Emma Nugent Goodall
Trauma, Stigma, Autism by Gordon Gates
Unmasking Autism: Discovering the New Faces of Neurodiversity by Devon Price
Unmasking for Life: A Guide to Embracing Your Autism in a Neurotypical World
By Dr. Devon PriceWhat I Want To Talk About: How Autistic Interests Shape A Life by Pete Wharmby
Welcome to AuDHD: How to Survive (and Thrive) as an Adult with Autism and ADHD by Megan Griffith
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Authentic Kink: Create Your Best Experience by Princess Kali
Exploring BDSM: A Workbook for Couples (or More) Discovering Kink by Morgan Thorne
Gratifying Domination and Submissive Contentment: A Guidance Manual by Mistress Scarlet
How To Train Your little: A DD/lg Guidebook by J E Earl and J L Lucky
Master/slave Mastery: Updated handbook of concepts, approaches, and practices by Robert J. Rubel Ph.D.
Playing Well With Others: Your Field Guide to Discovering, Navigating and Exploring the Kink, Leather and BDSM Communities by Lee Harrington
Safe Beginnings by Goddess Lakshimi
The BDSM Contract Book by Michelle Fegatofi
The Toybag Guide to Playing With Taboo by Mollena Williams
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Decolonizing Wellness: A QTBIPOC-Centered Guide to Escape the Diet Trap, Heal Your Self-Image, and Achieve Body Liberation by Dalia Kinsey
Embody: Learning to Love Your Unique Body (and quiet that critical voice!) by Connie Sobczak
Fat, Pretty, and Soon to be Old: A Makeover for Self and Society by Kimberly Dark
My Grandmother's Hands: Racialized Trauma and the Pathway to Mending Our Hearts and Bodies by Resmaa Menakem, LCSW
The Body Is Not An Apology: The Power of Radical Self-Love by Sonya Renee Taylor
The Other F Word: A Celebration of the Fat & Fierce by Angie Manfredi
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Boundaries and Relationships by Charles Whitfield M.D.
Boundaries: Where You End and I Begin by Anne Katherine, MA
The Set Boundaries Workbook: Practical Exercises for Understanding Your Needs and Setting Healthy Limits by Nedra Glover Tawwab
Transform Your Boundaries by Sarri Gilman
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Burnout
Burnout Recovery: A Neurodivergent-Friendly Guide to Healing Burnout Through Nature's Wisdom--Using ecopsychology, mythology, and depth psychology by Alicia K. Anderson
The Age of Overwhelm: Strategies for the Long Haul by Laura van Dernoot Lipsky
The Trauma of Burnout: How to Manage Your Nervous System Before It Manages You by Claire Plumbly
Autistic Burnout
The Autistic Burnout Recovery Workbook and Toolkit
Healing Autistic Burnout : A Neuroaffirming Guide for Connecting with Your Authentic Self, Restoring Your Energy, and Advocating for Your Needs by Sharon Kaye O'Connor
Self Regulating: A Supportive Guide To Autistic Burnout by Claire Holland
The Autistic Burnout Workbook by Megan Anna Neff
Understanding Autistic Burnout By Viv Dawes
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Living a Healthy Life with Chronic Pain by Sandra M. LeFort MN PhD, Lisa Webster RN , Kate Lorig DrPH, Halsted Holman MD, David Sobel MD MPH, Diana Laurent MPH, Virginia González MPH, Marian Minor PT PhD
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A Guide to Eco Anxiety by Anouchka Grose
Turn the Tide on Climate Anxiety by Megan Kennedy-Woodard and Patrick Kennedy-Williams
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Blindspot: Hidden Biases of Good People by Mahzarin R. Banaji
Democracy at Work: A Cure for Capitalism by Richard D Wolff
I'm Judging You: The Do-Better Manual by Luvvie Ajayi
Pleasure Activism: The Politics of Feeling Good by adrienne maree brown
The Racial Healing Handbook: Practical Activities to Help You Challenge Privilege, Confront Systemic Racism, and Engage in Collective Healing by Anneliese A. Singh, Ph.D., LPC
The White Ally Toolkit Workbook: Using Active Listening, Empathy, and Personal Storytelling to Promote Racial Equity by Dr. David W. Campt
Turn This World Inside Out: The Emergence of Nurturance Culture by Nora Samaran
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Care Work: Dreaming Disability Justice by Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinha
Disability Intimacy Essays on Love, Care, and Desire edited by Alice Wong
Literature, Speech Disorders, and Disability: Talking Normal by Christopher Eagle
Skin, Tooth, and Bone: The Basis of Movement is Our People by Sins Invalid
The Future Is Disabled: Prophecies, Love Notes and Mourning Songs by Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinha
To Root & To Rise: Accepting Brain Injury by Carole J Starr, M.S.
Unlearning Ableism: The Ultimate, No-Nonsense Guide to Understanding Disability and Unlearning Ableism by Jamie Shields and Celia Chartres-Aris
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A Quick & Easy Guide to They/Them Pronouns by Archie Bongiovanni
Beyond the Gender Binary by Alok Vaid-Menon
Non-Binary Lives: An Anthology of Intersecting Identities edited by Jos Twist, Ben Vincent, Meg-John Barker and Kat Gupta
Seeing Gender: An Illustrated Guide to Identity and Expression by Iris Gottlieb
The Queer and Transgender Resilience Workbook by Anneliese Singh, PhD, LPC
Trans Bodies, Trans Selves: A resource for the transgender community edited by Laura Erickson-Schroth
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How To Survive the Loss of A Love by Peter McWilliams and Harold H. Bloomfield
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Recover and Rebuild Domestic Violence Workbook: Moving On from Partner Abuse by Stacie Freudenberg, PsyD
Red Flags: Recognizing Abuse in Couple Relationships by Lorene D'Adam
The Emotional Abuse Recovery Workbook: Breaking the Cycle of Psychological Violence by Theresa Comito, LMFT
The Gaslighting Recovery Workbook: Healing From Emotional Abuse by Amy Marlow-MaCoy LPC
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Dealing with Difficult Metamours by Page Turner
It's Called "Polyamory": Coming Out About Your Nonmonogamous Relationships by Tamara Pincus and Rebecca Hiles
Love’s Not Color Blind by Kevin Patterson
Opening Up by Tristan Taormino
Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy by Jessica Fern
Rewriting the Rules by Meg-John Barker
The Jealousy Workbook by Kathy Labriola
The Polyamory Breakup Book by Kathy Labriola
The Polyamory Toolkit: A Guidebook for Polyamorous Relationships by Dan Williams and Dawn Williams
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Budget Management: Budgeting 101 from Theory to Practice; Become a Master Planner and Manager of Your Personal Finances by Ashley Desjardins
Learning a Living: A Guide to Planning Your Career and Finding a Job for People With Learning Disabilities, Attention Deficit Disorder, and Dyslexia by Dale Susan Brown
On Your Own: A College Readiness Guide for Teens With ADHD/LD by Patricia O. Quinn, MD and Theresa Laurie Maitland, PhD
Taking Flight: College for Students with Disabilities, Diverse Learners and Their Families by Perry LaRoque, PhD
The Career Planning Guide: Planning Adulting by Kyle Crandall
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Dyspraxia
Caged in Chaos: A Dyspraxic Guide to Breaking Free Updated Edition by Victoria Biggs
Stumbling through Space and Time: Living Life with Dyspraxia by Rosemary Richings
Thriving With Adult Dyspraxia: Practical Therapies for Coordination, Confidence, and Mental Wellbeing by Chester Harry Palmer
PDA
PDA by PDAers From Anxiety to Avoidance and Masking to Meltdowns by Sally Cat
Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria
The Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria Workbook: Skills for Adhd, Autistic, and Neurodivergent Adults to Heal from Rejection, Build Resilience, and Thriveby Catherine J Mutti-Driscoll
Synesthesia
Synesthesia by Richard E. Cytowic
Sensory Needs and Sensitivities
Living Sensationally Understanding Your Senses by Winnie Dunn
Making Sense: A Guide to Sensory Issues by Rachel S. Schneider
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Addiction, Attachment, Trauma and Recovery: The Power of Connection by Oliver J. Morgan
Finding Your Best Self, Revised Edition: Recovery from Addiction, Trauma, or Both by Lisa M. Najavits
The Addiction Recovery Workbook: Powerful Skills for Preventing Relapse Every Day by Paula A Freedman PsyD
Unbroken Brain: A Revolutionary New Way of Understanding Addiction by Maia Szalavitz
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Living with Voices: 50 Stories of Recovery edited by Marius Romme, Sandra Escher , Jacqui Dillon, Dirk Corstens, Mervyn Morris
The Practical Handbook of Hearing Voices: Therapeutic and creative approaches by Isla Parker
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Living and Loving After Betrayal: How to Heal from Emotional Abuse, Deceit, Infidelity, and Chronic Resentment by Steven Stosny
Love Over Trauma: Healing With Your Partner by Lindsey Walker
Love's Promises: How Formal and Informal Contracts Shape All Kinds of Families by Martha M. Ertman
Rock the Boat: How to Use Conflict to Heal and Deepen Your Relationship by Resmaa Menakem, LCSW
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A Quick & Easy Guide to Sex & Disability by A. Andrews
Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life by Emily Nagoski, Ph.D.
Enjoy Sex (How, when and if you want to): A Practical and Inclusive Guide by Dr Meg-John Barker and Justin Hancock
Good Sexual Citizenship: How to Create a (Sexually) Safer World by Ellen Friedrichs
Naked at Our Age: Talking Out Loud About Senior Sex by Joan Price
The Come as You Are Workbook: A practical guide to the science of sex by Emily Nagoski, Ph.D.
The Consent Guidebook: A Practical Approach to Consensual, Respectful, and Enthusiastic Interactions by by Erin Tillman.D.
The Edge of Sex 1st Edition by Lisa Speidel and Micah Jones
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Sex Work Matters: Exploring Money, Power, and Intimacy in the Sex Industry by Melissa Ditmore, Antonia Levy, Alys Willman (Editors)
Thriving in Sex Work: Heartfelt Advice for Staying Sane in the Sex Industry: A Self-Help Book for Sex Workers by Lola Davina
Working it by Matilda Bickers (Editor), Peech Breshears (Editor), and Janis Luna (Editor)
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Ace & Proud: An Asexual Anthology by A K Andrews by A K Andrews
All About Demisexuality by Demisexuality.org
Out!: How to Be Your Authentic Self by Miles McKenna
The ABC's of LGBT+ by Ashley Mardell
The Invisible Orientation: An Introduction to Asexuality by Julie Sondra Decker
The Spectrum of Sex: The Science of Male, Female, and Intersex by Hida Viloria
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Letting Go of Shame by Ronald Potter-Effron & Patricia Potter-Effron
Shame and Guilt by Jane Middleton-Moz
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Connecting With The Autism Spectrum: How To Talk, How To Listen, And Why You Shouldn’t Call It High-Functioning by Casey "Remrov" Vormer
Digging Out: Helping Your Loved One Manage Clutter, Hoarding, and Compulsive Acquiring by Michael A. Tompkins
Emotional CPR: Assisting People Through Emotional Distressby editors: Barbara Meyers, PhD, MDiv, CPS; Daniel B. Fisher, MD, PhD; W. Reid Smithdeal, MSW, LCSW, CPSS; Oryx Cohen, MPA; and Shira Collings, MS, LPC
Love in the Time of Chronic Illness: How to Fight the Sickness—Not Each Other by Barbara Kivowitz and Rosanne Weisman
Talking to Anxiety by Claudia Strauss
Talking to Depression by Claudia Strauss
The Reflective Workbook for Partners of Transgender People: Your Transition as Your Partner Transitions by D. M. Maynard
When Someone You Love Has a Chronic Illness: Hope and Help for Those Providing Support by Tamara McClintock Greenberg Psy.D.
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Complex PTSD: From Survivng to Thriving by Pete Walker
Healing Developmental Trauma: How Early Trauma Affects Self-Regulation, Self-Image, and the Capacity for Relationship by Laurence Heller Phd, Aline Lapierre Psyd
It Didn't Start With You: How inherited family trauma shapes who we are and how to end the cyclebyMark Wolynn
Looking Through the Eyes of Trauma and Dissociation: An illustrated guide for EMDR therapists and clients by Sandra Paulsen Ph.D
Reclaim: understanding complex trauma and those who abuse by Guha, Dr Ahona
Restorative Yoga for Ethnic and Race-Based Stress and Trauma by Gail Parker
The Body Remembers: The Psychophysiology of Trauma and Trauma Treatment by Babette Rothschild
The Deepest Well: Healing the Long-Term Effects of Childhood Trauma and Adversity by
The Resilience Myth: New Thinking on Grit, Strength, and Growth After Trauma by Soraya Chemaly
Transforming Trauma Resilience & Healing (New Directions in the Human-Animal Bond) by Philip Tedeschi
Trauma and Recovery: The Aftermath of Violence---From Domestic Abuse to Political Terror by Judith Lewis Herman
Widen the Window: Training Your Brain and Body to Thrive During Stress and Recover from Trauma by Elizabeth A. Stanley, PhD
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Drop the Disorder! Challenging the culture of psychiatric diagnosis by Jo Watson
The Collective Schizophrenias by Esmé Weijun Wan
The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture by Gabor Maté MD and Daniel Maté
We've Been Too Patient: Voices from Radical Mental Health--Stories and Research Challenging the Biomedical Model edited by L. D. Green and Kelechi Ubozoh
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Becoming Safely Embodied: A Guide to Organize Your Mind, Body and Heart to Feel Secure in the World by Deirdre Fay
The ADHD & Autism Unmasking Workbook by Emily Oliver
The Big Feelings Survival Guide: A Creative Workbook for Mental Health (74 DBT and Art Therapy Exercises) by Alyse Ruriani
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A Clinician's Guide to Gender-Affirming Care: Working with Transgender and Gender Nonconforming Clients by Sand Chang, Anneliese Singh, and Lore M. Dickey
A Neurodiversity-Affirming Approach to ADHD: Over 100 Interventions for Assessment, Treatment, and Support by Amy Marschall
Not So Abnormal Psychology: A Pragmatic View of Mental Illnessby Ronald B. Miller, PhD
Queering Your Therapy Practice by Julie Tilsen
Revolution in Psychology: Alienation to Emancipation
by Ian Parker
Somatic Psychotherapy Toolbox: 125 Worksheets and Exercises to Treat Trauma & Stressby Manuela Mischke-Reeds
Trauma-Sensitive Mindfulness: Practices for Safe and Transformative Healing by David A. Treleaven
Trans Sex: Clinical Approaches to Trans Sexualities and Erotic Embodiment by Lucie Fielding
Trauma Stewardship: An Everyday Guide to Caring for Self While Caring for Others by Laura van Dernoot Lipsky and Connie Burk
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It is organized alphabetically, grouped by subject as much as is possible. While I don’t always use diagnostic language, common terms like depression are used here for ease of search. Each book may not have been read in full, but is reviewed for content and approach.
If your favorite book isn’t listed here, it doesn’t mean it doesn’t fit. This list remains a work in progress and titles will be added and modified regularly. This list is not exhaustive and there are a lot of great works that haven’t made it here yet.
Have a book to recommend? Have some content to dialogue about? Send me an email and let’s discuss.
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An abbreviated title and author for all new books will be added to the list to track what is new.
This list was last updated on:
5/25/2026
Added ADHD, Burnout, OCD, and Neurodivergence sections
5/19/2026
Added Psychosis and Workbook sections
Added multiple titles to the Trauma, boundaries, disability, community, supporting loved ones, and understanding mental health sections